When a comment says "is she old enough to know her grandfather?" and my response was "she was 9 or 10 when he died so I think she would have" whydoes that go against community standards? Why is my appeal automatically rejected? What was offensive about it? Yet in other comments people make comments like "tranny", "gay grampa" and these are ok? Then, when I try to get it dealt with, customer service has no way to help, and tech support says the only way is through here, on feedback. I would like a personal response as to why so many of my comments are treated this way yet inflammatory ones are allowed as long as they fit AOL's agendas? I have been a paying customer since AOL 1.0. I need an explanation as to why this comment was refused and then the appeal refused. This discrimination and censorship is wrong when I am not an offensive person making inflammatory comments.