allow 3 people to boot a 4th
I don't think that is a good idea as even if you have three people, who is to say what three people. Certainly there are more than three people that share a more aggressive personality and then they could boot those that are more mild.
people with vile ("explicit") language do not seem to be properly monitored by aol. therefore, let us players be the judges and have the power to boot a rude player.